Every person has Many people have a dream, a vision if your are in a team. Too often in an attempt to accomplish that dream/vision we set ourselves with little chunks of metrics we call “Goals” that we think if we do accomplish them then we will get closer to accomplishing our dreams.
Well goal as performance measures are quit good since they allows us to track our progress. But not always!!
“What gets measured, gets done”. In other words, measuring a desired behavior tends to promote the desired behavior. However, there’s a dark side to this. It’s possible that the measure actually becomes the target—and that’s all you get ending up forgetting the original dream/ big pictue. This is known as Goodhart’s Law:
When a measure becomes the target, it ceases to be a good measure”.
While to many “More” often seems like it should be more of the same stuffs, but actual more is different.
Having alot of same stuff is just having one stuff in a big number, but more is when you have different stuffs. Even though i do love fried chickens, i will definitely hate it if I have to eat only that for a week.
Variation is cool. To be more, be different.
So next time stop thinking of for instance,
More = Money+Money+ Money up to infinity
instead, think of, More= Money+ health+ friendship et.c
the second equation is better. More is Different 😀
Creating value and good experiences is a team sport. It takes many people in different roles to define, design, and deliver something of value to the public. With this richness of diversity come the challenge of how to effective collaborate and relate. Continue reading “A Common DNA – On friendship & teamwork.”
Holla! Amigo, it’s time we meet again and have our serious talk. Talking less welcome on board and enjoy the view.
Love conquers all! The saying goes. But there other factors necessary for a long lasting, happy & stable relationship. Religious beliefs is one of them.
At the beginning of the relationship, the Religion factor may not be a stumbling block, problem comes when it’s time to level up, take the next step “MARRIAGE”
Religion entails not only the belief on GOD either as a Muslim or Christian but also the belief on the non existence of GOD(Atheism).The issue here (Religion) encompasses the total lifestyle of an individual, dresscode, food even the time and ways of worshipping.
Things most people fear in Interfaith relationships include,
First, internal conflicts on the fear of first being converted from one’s standing faith.
Again on the resistance from the spouses family, especially if…
“Forgetting your mistakes is a terrible error if you are trying to improve your cognition.. Why not celebrate stupidities!” — Charlie Munger
I like smart successful people who admit that at times in the past they were complete stupid horses’ asses, simply because they are telling the truth. Because if one thinks deeply, What is success? If not a jar of mistakes from which a person commit to-learn from, change and grow?
“They say life is like a race, have you ever seen an 1500 meters Olympic race?”
Normally a runner for the first two laps would run at a steady pace, only trying to keep himself consistently near the head, or at least the middle, of the pack of others racers , hoping not to fall too far behind as he also conserves energy for the whole race. Continue reading “A simple 3-Steps guide to Success.”
“Define success on your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a life you’re proud to live. ” – Anne Sweeney